Friday, October 30, 2009

与残疾人交往的礼仪

第一,在称呼上一定要做到尊重、亲切。

第 二,和残疾人的相遇时目光很重要,必须要做到以下两点:一是要用正常的目光看待,千万不要一看见残疾人就显示出奇怪的样子或好奇的样子来;二是不能把目光 停留在他们的残疾部位。

第三,和残疾人谈话,要特别注意回避与其生理缺陷有关的词语和内容。如果要谈及残疾人的事时,就多谈些残 疾人的事业、奋斗精神,社会的助残活动,个人的助残行为,在社会主义市场经济中的残疾人服务的企事业单位和发展前景等。一般情况下,就不要涉及残疾人的事 情,就像和正常人交往一样,谈话内容可以广泛一些,根据谈话对象的爱好,天文、地理、历史、经济、政治、文化、新闻、趣事、国际、国内都可以,使其感到人 们并没有把他们另眼看待。

第四,帮助残疾人时要特别注意方式方法。在帮助他们之前,一定要征得他们的同意后再进行具体的帮助。例如,遇到了盲人正要横穿马路时,就应该恭恭敬敬地走到他旁边,说明自己的身份,然后再问“我领你过马路好不好”?如查他同意了就帮助他穿过马路。因为残疾人很好强,他们不喜欢甚至反感别人对他们的怜悯,如果不征得他们的同意,一上去就帮忙,可能会被他拒绝,或者说些不好听的话,反而会使你陷入尴尬局面。

感想:自己很多时候都不是很会处理与它们之间的沟通,在怜悯与体恤很难抓到平衡点,把他们一视同仁,但其实他们真的却又不同。
在大学里,遇到的特殊科友都是很了不起的人,所以沟通问题就少了一点。但实习时,我却面对很大的挑战。因为他们都是小学生。。。教到我哭


Sunday, October 25, 2009

Alamanda Sushi King~nice service\(^o^)/~


Arghhh~~~tomotachini totemo iidesu(friends are really good for me….lovely)

Tz picture made me so rindu the time we were the PPC comrades…aahhhhhh….ppc…my best memoriesssssssssssssssssss…….so hard times…but…so worth….it made us together

Tz day ah…as u see in the picture. We went Sushi King. RM2 per plate, so when we arrived, a long queue outside…argh….i really run to rebut with a pak cik, but actually he just came to kacau us only and pretend to queue up in front us….

Thought need wait so long, but no 5 minutes, we being served…WHAT A LUCKY DAY!!! Then the 2 black shirt friends..very naughty and minta free sushi passing thru beneath the table…

Enter, super hungry…eat 30 more plates, kacau all the stuff until they so luan, taking photo with chief, waiterssssss….they really excited but malu-malu kucing, so many ppls around…still hv times playing, minta to see the photo we took.

When bayar, sempat lagi kacau ah moi(cashier)…write the comment feedback paper,write down their names, praise all of them, say goodbye to them…

Seeing their happy face, we feel so warm too…. Jia na, soyonara, have a nice day.


Tuesday, October 20, 2009

my Sign Langauge Class

hai hai~~~
seem like so long din really relax to blaaaa somethings at here...

after finish 90% thesis (more accurate call thesis) and finish my last class (sign language class)...so now can relax bit and tommorrow back home lo (i always ll struggle want to back home or not coz very tired and buzy but i think i need to stop thinking tz and jz back no matter how)

Today is my last Sign Language Class. Suddenly very miss it, rindu.... O(∩_∩)O

Tz class, so sweet for me. have a very cute lecturer (En Safani), very cute classmate (same faculty and luar faculty), very creative contain (for sure is learning sign language la)....

But definitely for sure tz course not easy. You need to can hold tz tension just can take tz course:

1. Every week have test. (1 test 10 mark, in 1 sentences wrong 1 word hilang 1 mark>_<)

2. Shudder and hand shake when u sign...(everytime after sign i ll be in huge relief, because i ll be the last person to sign and ll be torture so long for waiting in nervous)

3. Have 2 class, tutorial and lecture. (everytime i ll be d 1st person stand in front to demo-coz my name on top sekali in namelist. my name can being all time call out until i phobia until all people know sure is me and my coursemate ll make fun on me before enter the class:"sudah bersiap sedia untuk dipanggil tak?⊙﹏⊙”, i wonder the class so big got more then 50 people but why Encik dun wan to call from center of namelist, dah la i selalu duno wat the sentence of sign language book talking about and tindakan selalu tak semacam wat i read....really duno to sign leh~~~)

4. words u learn semakin banyak and memorize behind ll forget in front.....( i already everytime wake up early to hafal it by whole day but still cant strike perfect result, really want cry~)

5. know to sign tak sama with know to read others ppl sign language. (everytime En. sign i ll really pening coz he sign quite fast and i tak sempat think wat is that he already sign the next words)

6. Need to do assignments also not only everydays sign.

7. sign/practice so much hand ll cramp. (everytime i ll practice until laid on table until cant move or even take up hands...but after tat still need to proceed...can be as a kind of exercise too)

anyways, i still want to praise our lecturer. He really patient in teaching and not take for granted or find the easy way for his jobs.....

learn sign language have what advantage? (after doing assignments i knw tz)

1. It can make use ur others % of brain and ll become creative
2. May be when u talking u ll tiba-tiba sign until sendiri tak perasan. mean ur gestures become more.
3. when in disco u no need to shout
4. In class can sign when need to diam
5. In underwater world can sign without drink so much water
6. Far far so paiseh no need to shout but sign
7. Make friends with deaf
8. Can sign in bus when ppl talking with u at outside.
9. Sore Throat ll be definitely being save

disadvantages?

1. when seeing ppl u ll forgot want how to speak

It is a nice class~